Gender Identity

After a series of researching on the web, I thought why not kick off this week with gender identity and sexuality.
 
Gender identity is generally found between the ages 13 and 19 years old. This is when teens are gaining new experiences, emotions, relationships, expectations and all of this can become overwhelming for any teen that age. However, adding gender identity into the mix of everything else that is happening within themselves and around them can cause these years to be the most confusing time for teens. They will find it hard to navigate their gender identity around school and/or home, with their doctors or even with their friends.

One’s gender identity is their inner most concept of self as a male, female, both or neither; outside of that, they could fancy the same sex, or a different sex than what they were assigned at birth. The two words that are most used when it comes to what gender you are attracted to are Gay or Lesbian, Bisexual (Bi) or straight; Gay means you like the same sex as yourself, either male or female, Bisexual means you like both, Lesbian is when you are a girl and only like girls and the last one is straight as in you only like the opposite sex.

Finding the confidence of telling a friend or a parent that your gender identity or sexual preference does not fit the societal norm can be an emotional journey. You don’t know how they will react or when the right time to tell them will be, telling someone or “coming out” should happen when the time comes and when you’re ready. It is a massive thing to tell family members and close friends your secret, at the best of times we may not be able to have any sort of control over our “coming out”. There are ways for you to be able to overcome that fear; if “coming out” is important to you, there is a website called ‘Gender Spectrum’ that offers guidance and helpful recourses for you to look at. https://www.genderspectrum.org/

I have asked a few people that I know that who are straight, bi, gay, and lesbian to tell their stories, but I’m currently waiting to hear back from them. When I do I’ll create another article about friends who happily tell their stories, how they coped, what they did and many other things. Hopefully, this can help you can feel more settled with what you feel and what you may want to do.
You are not alone out there. Everyone is in the same boat there is no shame in who you are; people have to accept who they are at the end of the day. 

New Doctor Who played by Jodie Whittaker

Yes! Jodie Whittaker! Amazing actress, looks the part and could see her looking like she can bring back the fun in the Doctor. 

What do we know about Jodie Whittaker?

Jodie Whittaker is married to a American actor called Christian Contreras; they had their first born son in 2015, she had a nephew called Harry Whittaker who had Down Syndrome and played Leo Goskirk a character who had the same condition in Emmerdale before his death in 2014 at age 3. 

Jodie has been known to be in the most house hold names in films and Tv programs today; from St Trinians 1&2, Hello Carter, Spike Island and many more films, to Tv programs such like Doctors, Tess of the D’Urbervillies, Marchlands and last but not least Broadchurch. 

She has made a name for herself over the years with lots of films and Tv programs; making another house hold name for herself as the first women doctor, and being the 13th Doctor is going to be one good showing. 

My thoughts about Jodie Whittaker as the first female Doctor Who?

As I found out after it was being announced; I was like no way, when I saw her face I was like definitely no way. Jodie is amazing actress all the way; I loved her work in Broadchurch, she brought the mother who had lost a child by a horrible death that was caused by someone she had thought she could trust. 

I think personally she will bring back the fun; the excitement, laughter and make every cliff hanger work well. We need someone knew; vibrant, fun, active and not so serious. I found Peter what’s his face so boring, dry and not fun at all. I gave up watching it since Matt Smith had left; Peter made me think of Christopher Ecclston who was so boring and dully, until they brought in Jack Borrowman in half way through and I was like hello sexy. Then David Tennant won me over to the end of his time; then Matt Smith won me over again but couldn’t stand his two side kicks at the time Rory and Amy, they got way too much annoying towards their time. 

Please don’t make Jodie have annoying actor who will put me off watching the show; everyone has their opinion on the doctors and who should play the character, in the world of today we have to bring in someone new and different. In this day in age we can’t live in the world of sexism; that one character has to play a man all the time, it’s like saying women can’t do a man’s job when they don’t even bother do it themselves. 

Yes Jodie has to prove that she can portray he character of the Doctor; however remember in Victorian times, Elizabethan times and Tudor times men dressed up in women clothes to portray the characters of the women. We have come along way since then; yet we still need to have more equal rights as men in some areas that need to be touched, it’s just nice to see that a female Doctor is being played other than having a female sidekick who’s always having a crush on the Doctor and need saving all the time. 

It just gets too. What’s the word I’m looking for; yes that’s it cheesy, because at the end of the day women can be heroes to and play men’s parts that have been so many years. Just stop being so judgemental about things like that. Just get over yourselves people. We say that every time there’s a new Doctor coming; will they pull it off? Will they fill the big shoes from the person before them? What is the stamp on the Doctor? 

Just give her some credit guys and give it a try. You never know she may impress you and you might fall in love with her. 

Plagiarism or Copyrights Infringement

Answering a comment that was posted to me by Medical Advice Sites. A very good question; I hope I can explain and answer the question, that might help you and anyone who wants to know how to avoid it as much as possible.

I agree with you there are lots of plagiarisms, copyrights and many more things that people do theses days. The best way to either avoid these types of things are research the topic that you want to talk; pick out what’s important to you, know what your understanding of the article that you have read. Then put it into your own words what you think about the whole situation; if your using quotes from the article that you have researched, make sure you copy the link where you have found it so that your readers know where to go if they want to read the same article as you. 

Plagiarism and copyrights for me I haven’t really got into any issues as much; however I always research the information about the content or article that I’m just about to write, I then reword the what I want to write or I pick out what areas I want to write on post it’s and stick them in my journal to which will help me to understand where I want to go with the article. If I wanted to use a quote from the perceive article; I’ll make sure that I put quote makes around the context of the quote, then a link on where I have found it. So then they can read that article for more information; have a different perspective of things, so they can decide for their themselves. Everyone has opinions. 

There are lots of frauds out there who can steal anything and claim it’s their work; to which people who actually written it look like they stole the work from the frauders, yet if you back up all of your work onto something. If something like that happens; you know that you have evidence that it is your work and not there’s, I always make sure that I’m covered by making sure that my work has got the my logo on my pictures and the allrightsresereved and copyrights belong to lizzysweeklyblogs and lizzyarrow. Which covers the whole document/article. 

I have put up Terms and Conditions and copyrights up onto my blog website; why not check it out on the top of the page, but if you cover yourself by having these on your website you know you won’t be able to fall into the trap of getting taken to court for stealing someone’s work. 

I hope this helps with your question Medical Advice Sites. 

What is the Extras?

Behind the scenes with Hustle and Bustle Advice of Blogging; is coming or you have seen popping up from time to time, along with the rest of the major events. Here’s why.


The reason why I feel that every event should have an extra blog to it; because sometimes I feel like not a lot happens on the actual event, your like waiting for so long for the event weather it’s in the morning or in the evening. So I thought hey why not have a bit more of a teaser to get you going whilst your waiting. 

Sometimes I feel too eager to wait for the following week to schedule you for that week; so I thought I might as well what about try to do an extra blog once in a while, by the way I do tend to talk to myself when I have these ideas. I either go along with it or I don’t. Most of the time I do go along with it; then I generally don’t go along with it when I start doing the blogs, I’m like what am I writing here? Or I don’t even like this blog so why am I writing about it this title for because I’m just not feeling it. I’m just not feeling the love or compassion from it all. 

I know I’m strange; like I’m talking to a blank piece of paper on my iPad screen, no one does that? Then your weird; yes you the one in the middle picking your nose and eating it, that’s just weird and gross and your here to learn not being board out of your skull and picking your brains out. 

Anyways back to what is extras? Extras is not about that muppet called Ricky Gravis whatever he calls himself; he’s just not that runny, he’s the most annoying high pitched guy who just needs a punch or something. I am so not a violent person what so ever; extras in my blogging world is when you have something, that is most exciting news or something that you can’t wait for the following week. You have just got to share the information with your readers; that’s what the extras are for, along with the hype for the day’s actual event it self. 

I am most likely rambling on this one haha. If I’m not heyho it’s Monday and it’s the start of the week; who needs to be serious at the start of the week, good tip I always find is if you find away of making people laugh in your blogs. Good on you. You can’t always be serious all the time; there is a will, there’s away. Like for example in my Tom Kennedy’s blog stories/notes; in my first story that I’ve published, Invisible Man Part 1,2 & 3 I had to make it more fun and funny because if the story was slow and boring. You will loose your audience/readers; you need to be diverse in your writing or vlooging or whatever you do, because at the end of the day who will be coming back for more to read or watch your blogs. The same people who you caught the attention off.

I think you should give it ago personally; let your hair down, run free with it all. So tempted to close my window now; getting mighty freezing even though I’ve been sweating like a pig, not Miss Piggy guys come on. It a Thursday night and I’m planning this with my window open; that really didn’t sound right did it, all well actually black clouds are coming over don’t particularly want to get wet in the middle of the night.

Looking Glass Part 1: The night they became orphans

There’s two sides of what happened that night; one I’m just about to tell you, another is secretly safe with me until I’m ready to let the full works out in paper. Let me begin that one fateful night. – Authors Notes


The randomness of snowflakes is a sight that enraptures the casual observer. Who watched a young mother struggling with three young infants; who seem to give her the run around, luckily someone who the young lady knows carefully without skipping over, came running over to give her a hand. As he watched the dramatic scene that had laid before him; he said “do you know who they are?” Thinking out loud but actually talking to you readers; “no you say?…..haven’t you heard the tales and the rumours of the three young triplets.” He paused for a moment as the young lady had two of the triplets; the much older lady had managed to calm the other child down, and ended up carrying him as he was distracted by the scarf that she was wearing. 

He waited for a second before he followed; then he followed them down the road, the two women were talking about something. Something about tests and waiting for the results to come through the post. The observer stopped in his tracks; he turn to his readers again, “you see…things have already started to take shape with these three children; tests and waiting for results to come through, it can only mean one thing.” As he grinned shamelessly as he knew something wasn’t gong right that night; he couldn’t do much about it to be honest, he was just there as a protector of the triplets but no one knows it except him. He couldn’t even intercept what is going to happen; if he did he would portray his culture, his promise and more importantly his word to one man all those years ago.

The varied nature of airplanes is a wonderous thing that bewilders the casual observer. As he watched through the living room window of the Borthwright’s house; knowing something was going to happen, that very same day. That very same might that was coming in; drawing to the close on the 3rd April 1996, just the day before their 3rd birthday. 

That night the sinister turned as we all expected; the landscape of spears is a wondrous thing that entices the mind, the chaos of trees is a magical expression that badgers the casual observer. As the pattern of fairy wings is a song that attacks the soul; knowing whatever has just arrived, they tried to put up a very good fight until they stopped in mid air by an evil curse. Even if the observer could do something about it and to free them but he couldn’t.

The mixture of buttons is a wondrous thing that excites the senses. The observer could feel the unseen followers praying over the house; that’s when he knew that he had to change into the wolf, before anyone knew that he was there. Dark entity appeared next to him at his side without realising; the glass broke in the window of the front door, the observer wolf quickly jumped through the broken window before the dark thing put his arm through the window to unlock the door. As he watched. He clocked his head what he saw; that’s not normal is it, the observer clocked his head with realisation that the buzzer for intruder alert had not gone off. The panic kicked in his wolf body; he really didn’t know what to do, he heard Mary scream as she saw Eric laying on the bedroom of the three triplets room. The observer realised where everyone was; he ran up the stairs to the room as he skidded into the bedroom door, Mary had clocked the wolf knowing who it was. Their eyes connected with each other; they both knew that they will see each other in the next life, she spoke the language that he knew and understood what she meant…. 

Invisible Magic Part 4: Dear Both Worlds Primeminsters

The things that Tom Kennedy would like to address from his sick bed; that’s in the basement of his home, so here is his letter for all go you to read. – Authors Notes

Dear Both Worlds PrimeMinsters 

I first like to sincerely apologies that you had witness a horrific attack this week in my home; not the first time they have attacked the house, well actually there’s an investigation going on. How did they know someone like me lived in the middle of nowhere? We all know. Well the whole Kennedy department knew who’s behind it all. Your probably thinking who were they in the first place. 

Okay let me explain. For centuries there’s this secret within the Kennedy family that someone had found a child; who was a orphan, an orphan that can do great things but no one except my world can understand and know what’s happening. For generations no one knew why we were all went into hiding except of course; my great grandfather and great grandmother, their children and their children. So basically my dad and Fred knew the secret but no one else knows; the whole truth about this secret, but there’s also two legends that run in the family. Two which is actually true but the other one is rare; so rare that know one knows who’s going to get it next, let me explain the first legend that you may have heard about is where the Kennedy Family has been blessed with their own special knowledge and experience of magic of some sort. Then you have the school in the distance lands of Scottish isles; that only people get excepted if they could do things that they can’t explain, even your world people can do things like me. 

However remember me saying about the second leg? The second legend is where nearly ever so often; each generation has one child who has autism, someone like me. Not all generations have the special gift of this power; being half autistic shows the signs of more power than anything else; half autistic means that this particular power has, this great power of helping you control your emotions and the way you react. However it’s doesn’t happen all the time; it comes when it pleases, doesn’t warn you when it does come and thats when if your in danger it does something more powerful than you can go. Basically you won’t remember as much afterwards.

The reason why I am telling you this is because the intruders weren’t just any intruders; they were followers, somebody’s followers. That somebody is called Oliver Wishingwell in other words treestumpwell. Since the news of my late cousin Mary Borthwright and her husband Eric Borthwright along with their first eldest son Mark Borthwright’s death; on the fateful night on 3rd April 1996 leaving three young infants orphaned, and most danger to the dangerous man we had to separate them all to protect them. I would say where are but if this letter gets introspected to you primeminster’s; I would like you to keep your eyes peeled and ears for listening, no matter how much you disagree with the Kennedy apartment you have to by by the law of the Kennedy’s protection and protection of Kennedy’s orphanage. 

There will be dark times and there’s no way of denying it; he is still out there somewhere, but very weak as no one actually knew what happened that night. Yet his followers are still at large; will always be finding out clues to where they are, so I do hope with respect that you will keep your questions of where they are to yourselves.
Your Sincerely 

Tom Kennedy 

Son of Stanley and Daisy Kennedy 

Aurour for Kennedy Department 

Protector of the Minstery of Humanity 

When is it time to say enough is enough?

The thought of loosing so much sleep and dreaming a lot; all because your feeling anxious or depressed or even stressed, you just want to say enough is enough.

Today’s Sunday Special I thought about things; it made me think about turning to God or to the church, I know that I can turn to Caspian as he’s been a life saver and someone who I could trust. However can I turn to god; what can I trust religion side of things, even growing up in a Christian family but it’s a lot more in trusting to turn to faith than someone that you love. That’s just my opinion of how I think and feel about things; of who to trust and not to trust, that’s where I maybe its my anxious and depression kicked in.

Past week I had felt the lowest of the low; stressed out, depressed and anxious. Which by the end of the week with the things; I ended up feeling ill emotionally, headache’s, another with health had started to kick in and everything else had started to kick in. To the point of not being able to cope; the initial fear of people coming too close to my liking in my bubble, when I’m in that state of mind that I couldn’t cope with more symptoms kicking in.  

The question is when is it the time to say enough is enough; is it when you know when your ready for time is right?, when are you going to next fall?, who is going to catch me if I did fall?. The whole flight and fight mode had started or would started to kick in. 

Caspian has been my been my awesome rock; he be there when I needed him the most, I know that he’s not going to abounded what so ever. He also when I know that he’s the one trying to help me; be the supportive, caring and everything else. I know I can trust him more and more; trying to find ways to be together is harder than we thought, until I say something out of the ordering and we both know how stupid the whole situation is at the time. 

That’s how a true friendship or relationship goes because you know when you get that close to someone; you love them to bits, along side with the whole I trust you along the way. Yes I can be like I’m backing out at times but he knows how insecure I am; how I haven’t got much believe in myself nor the courage to ask things, in case of being rejected in one way or another. 

When things come back to me; he knows as soon as I start flipping out on him, he reminds me that he’s not going anywhere, not going to give up on me along with the three words of I love you. It gives me that sign of encouragement that I’m not going to give up on myself; I have my knight in shinning armer ready to come and save me no matter what it’s wrong, knowing I have him by myself. That’s when I know enough is enough for me to keep fighting and fighting him. Meaning that I trust him more than previous relationships I had in the past; he is such a nice guy all round, I wouldn’t give up on him either if he had his moments. 

You basically know how to fight things if you know; you have that person to fight things with, no matter how tough it is to begin with but at the end of the day you know you have that one person being dependent on and visa. 

Off Record!


You may tell that I haven’t prepped this blog at all today; I may do an off chance of doing none prep blog, once in awhile but today I just wanted to announce a new blog category. The new category is Saturdays Topics Of The Week at 3pm; every week there will be a topic that we can discuss about, as one on one or as a group. If there’s a topic that you want me to talk about either; message me by leaving a comment below or email me on lizzysweeklyblogs@outlook.com or lizzyarrow@outlook.com by will get through to me as they are with the blog company. 

Let me know if there’s topics that you would like to see either in this category or Teenagers Life Crisis’s let me know; I am open with these two categories for anyone who would like to see another opinion or advice, let me know via the information in the last paragraph. I will be prepping the first blog for next week; so sit back relax, and carry on reading my blogs.

The Fear Of The Unknown 

How can one dream; turn into a reality of another’s one soul, but she’s not all cracked up to be. Is she?

For the rest of the night seemed to be quiet; Darrell woke up a few times as he heard me tossing and turning, along with a few murmuring of words that he just about make out. He scribbled them down before he could forget what they were; but one name was really bothering him, he only know a little bit about him but it was his duty of care to protect me. 

Darrell had his work iPad next to him; he brought up the whole scan picture, name app that security and him use on a daily basis. So he typed in Lawerence Windsor. Whilst he waited for the information to come up; there was a knock on the door, he got up and slowly crept over. He was starting to sweat from his brow; panicking that he just me on my own, as he slowly opened the door. There stood Caspian. Looking like he couldn’t sleep at all; he mumbled something like I just punched Luka’s lights out, well nearly until he was convinced that no one will know that he spent the night with me. Just to protect me throughout the night. 

So Darrell agreed to let him in; but on the one condition this can’t keep on happening, until it all gets sorted. Not even your grandmother shouldn’t know about this. He knew what he was talking about. Darrell had completely forgot about what he was doing on the work iPad; he placed down next him as he laid on the sofa, I could feel Caspian’s strong arms wrapping around me. He could feel me relaxed in his arms; like the dream that I was dreaming about had disappeared, the rest of the night was quiet. 

Until there was a disturbance outside the room; hush angry sounds which disturbed me, Caspian and Darrell, before any of us could move Luka came in. With complete bewildered like he had just seen something or someone; he claimed that he had just seen Lawerence Windsor, lurking in the grounds in the early hours of this morning. I could feel Caspian feeling tense and starting to get worked up about it all. It frightened me a bit but he soon realised what he was doing; quickly apologies for what he did, we all knew that me and Caspian were in danger and need to get out of the house quickly. 

Fortunately the armed police and more security came as quickly as possible; we went to a different location on which I didn’t know, I was to afraid to ask anyone about it. I could see Caspian out of the corner of my eye; he was too mad too say anything, he caught me looking on which made me look another way. He knew that I knew he was mad; he tried to not show it, then he realised he was starting to frown, that got him more annoyed. 

We had finally got to our destination; I could see a little lady and a tall gentleman, they were standing nice and straight. More to the point well dressed than anything else. I heard Caspian say ‘buckets full of potatoes’ that’s when I knew who they were. I gently smiled I knew what he meant; just funny that he had that posh boy about him, that he has to be respectable person with everyone. 

As we fully stopped; I so wanted to stay in the car but I knew we had to get out of the car, especially me of all people. It took me a while to get out of the car; just before I could the elderly man who looked so powerful, I could only imagine he was Caspian’s grandfather Tyrone came over and opened the door. 

‘It’s okay they’ve got him now. Your safe’ he said holding out his hand in offer of helping me out of the jeep and for reassurance that everything was alright. From then on me and Caspian we became more close and in love than ever before due to the fact that I wasn’t under threat from anyone no more. 

The part where you just want to scream!

The part where you just want to scream but the only way to do so is in a journal. Have you thought what it must be like for a writer who has lots going on in their mind; yet the things on their mind is stopping them from putting pen to paper, this is what my world in my mind as a writer.
So in this journal you will find your on a chase throughout the journal; which speaks of the journey that once use to be lived in, but now the journal is speaking of the journey. Now come. Come and read. Read for yourselves what it’s like to live in a writer’s head; that everyone thinks writers don’t get a writer’s block, that’s not true everyone has those days. I’ve had one two many of them this week. (Week of the 10th July 2017).
Let me begin how I grateful I am for you to come and read my blogs and their stories; without your care and love to read them, it’s shows me great courage to continue in writing even if I’m having a bad day for some odd reason or another. So far this week I have managed to get some of my blogs done on time this week; which is a success as monjority of the week, I’ve been so stressed out with other things. All I just wanted to do is scream because I couldn’t get what I wanted done. Done. Where to the point if I wanted to that I actually wanted to give up of trying to live my dream as a writer; whilst everything around me is closing in, to the point of do I actually want to make this a success or not. 

I know it’s not going to be a permanent thought of mind when you have a writer’s block; when you have so many other things going on in your head, all you want to do is scream, shout, give up and even want to punch somebody to the point because you got to that state of mind. Writer block is completely to everyone who writes; like I’ve just mentioned about my mind just want to give up and etc, it shows the whole different side of you that no one actually see’s. They see someone being successful in their craft or hobby. 

I’m quite surprised that I managed to come up with this blog on Wednesday 12th July 2017. The day I had that day. My word I couldn’t even tell you even if I tried. Whilst I was trying to work on my blogs and etc; I was trying to sort out things with Caspian and his things, whilst having a complete argument, trying to push him away and what not. To be honest he’s not even giving up on me that easily. 

The best thing is about Caspian no matter how much I try to push him away; he knows how much I’m fighting my demons, he believes in me no matter how much I want to be left alone. To be able to talk to him about things can unclear my head from writer blocks; then look at what views I have on each blog websites, then say actually what am I doing. I shouldn’t give up on this. I need to believe in myself to be able think I can do this; I’m going to carry on with this and take down the writer’s block one way or another, to remind myself what the blogs are good for and what other people say or thoughts that I may have about it all. 

This is one of my reasons I have writer’s blocks when I battle my demons; I think of the whole I’m not good enough, until someone so close to you and says no your not. Its like them saying I’m not abounding you because of what you have got or what has happened to in the past; your the reason why I love you because you have the passion to do something in life, I want to help you get through the pain barrier first. 

All you got to do is not give up on yourself; find your strong hardcore man or women who believes in you no matter what, I hope this helps you guys.