Star Light Categories – Throwbackthursday – Relationships Advice

Relationship advice…Relationship advice….I’m pretty much not good at theses things to be honest. It’s all down to common sense to perfectly honest with you; well from the outside of someone’s else’s relationship going down the pain but sometimes it is hard to see ones own problems, and get defensive about other people sticking their noises in. 

We are all human at the end of the day. Well depends on what the relationship type is; from abuse, trafficking and etc that’s not right or human way to act in my opinion.  Each to their own ways of dealing with arguments, love, happiness and etc at the end of the day you may of met you’re true love. Arguments are pretty normal if you ask me in any situation of a relationship; you both work together on the problems, get through them and be there for each other. 

Sometimes relationships don’t work out and that’s fine. Move on and learn from it. Yes it hurts. Yes it takes time to heal. Yes you think it’s you and that there’s generally something wrong with you. I have those quite a lot when I have an argument with someone that I love or something along those lines. 

I pretty much believe that there is something is wrong with me at the best of the times no matter what people say to me. It takes me awhile to get my head around the fact that it isn’t me and I should literally let go off it all and the pain.  

It does help if you have a good friendship with someone who can just be there for like no one else would. Know your pain and suffering. Also to help you get yourself back up again. Just remember you are you and there’s literally nothing wrong with you. 

 

Daily Comedy Kittens – Kittens Thursdays – We have a foot fetish kitten!

That’s right…you read the title correctly we have a foot fetish kitten in the family. Our sweet chilled, shy, quiet kitten Bubba 1 has fixation of feet. To the point we think it sweet and funny because to us it’s weird and funny; to the point of bubba 1 she likes feet, and wants to play with them so all in all we dance about whilst we try and walk or sit down as she plays with them. 

When we first got them both we didn’t know that one of them liked feet, socks, shoes and shoe laces. Until the first day we got them I was laying on my sisters floor to be their height; so they can smell me, working out who I am and etc. I fell asleep on floor stupidly for some reason; I woke up to bubba 1 nibbling my toes and smelling my feet, I was like really bubba 1. 

Ever since then she’s gone for my feet, my sisters feet, my parents, my bothers feet and few other peoples feet mostly us four as they see us everyday. Bubba 1 has recently started to nick my socks, all of our shoes and even wearing it most of them on their head. Even attacking the shoes especially of my parents flip flops. 

I think we’ve got to the point of all well it happens it happens. You know when they start to nick things. Just literally went down to figure out which kitten I just picked up and was laying on my bed got confused by the white markings one of them is starting to get their white markings underneath. To find out as I got downstairs that one of them had nicked my insole out of my shoe again not sure how but they did. I know part of it was coming out but I didn’t expect them to manage to get the whole thing out. 

I might just get them one pair of shoes and socks so they can have one shoe each and a sock each to play with as they both seem to like playing with shoes now. Trust me bubba 2 is coping the other bubba 1 but with style by having her favourite ball to play with. 

Written By Lizzy Johnson 

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Star Light Categories – Mid-Week Post – Autumn has started to arrive!

As autumn has officially started to arrive; leaves have started to turn to different colours, conquers will come and fall around the 28th September the only reason that I remember that is because it’s my cousin’s birthday around then and his sister named him conquer because that’s when he was going to be born. 

Today’s been a strange one guys to may of noticed that I’ve published quite a few blogs today; the only reason was that I had another day off from work, and I managed to get things done off my list whilst having hyperactive kittens going on in the back ground. 

(19.9.18) Todays weather had been wild strong winds, rain and sunny then rain again briefly. You know when autumn and end of summer are at each other’s throats because no one wants the change. I do find that it feels like we only just had snow and skipped the heat wave and everything then back to autumn and winter again. Does anyone else feel like this? 

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Daily Comedy Kittens – Kittens Wednesday – Fussy eaters!

Fussy eaters for two kittens. We got them two different types of food to see which one they would prefer but to be fair we were trying to see the best cheaper options as well but as soon as we gave them the cheapest which initials the same as the Felix kitten food in it. 

Trust me they didn’t even like that one single bit they have a bit of it; however the would refuse to eat all afternoon, like they would have a stand off with us who would feed them and then you know that they prefer Felix food than a company made food that we got it from. 

So we now know that we aren’t getting the ones that they don’t like even though they are the same food. We knew they don’t like beef, cod and few other things so we know what to go for now we know what they like and won’t give it to them again. 

They are so funny. They even get hyperactive with their own milk when we give it to them luckily we only give it to them twice a week. Oh boy they go bombers even more than normal; does take them a long time to calm down however I wouldn’t have it any other way, brings life into the house and etc. 

We are still learning from them and they are learning from us we can’t always guess what they like and don’t like without giving it ago. No one is perfect at the end of the day but we’ve got to tell them that things that they aren’t allowed to do and what they are allowed to do. Sometimes we are like all well it happens it happens at the end of the day. Try again tomorrow and so on. Doesn’t really happen over night but it does take time to do things and that’s the whole point of training. 

Written By Lizzy Johnson

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Everyday Daily Stories – Mental Health Issues – “People should be locked up and play about with meds”

“Sadly, not much help out there for the mentally ill. Lock them up for a month  and ply them with tablets ☹” – Facebook comment on my local radio/newspaper article about someone who was in a venerable place. 

I was pretty reading the article I did feel sorry the person quite a lot. As I understand a lot more through my own problems but what upsets me is that people comment or say things that they don’t actually understand themselves but saying “I should be able to walk here” or “if they are going to jump…jump already” which to my opinion is quite selfish of them to say that because they are just thinking about themselves and not helping others. 

I was reading some of the comments through this one case that got me really upset and cross. I’m not naming the person or calling them out because I’m not that sort of a person. The comment that I put up in my opening statement to me personally makes me think that they are one of those posh sobs in my hometown its my opinion as I don’t know the person but the comment led me to think they are. 

Yes there’s not much help out there for mentally ill people but why is it all coming out now making people know it’s there. Making the change and making the difference. To say people should be locked up for a month and ply them with tablets. 

That’s not right at all. Firstly people years ago in our history were locked up for that reason because they didn’t know how to deal with it along with learning disabilities and etc. Second of all being locked up and been given tablets won’t solve anything because the problems are still there. Locked up is just for another way of keeping them safe but tablets don’t actually make the pain and thoughts go away. It just numbs it to reduce the much of the thoughts. 

I should know as I’m on medication I have my highs and lows trust me it’s not a pretty sight when I have my lows. Yet I always find away out of it in the end. All I ask be considerate about other people wellbeing who are struggling even if we don’t know what is wrong. Saying lock them up and give them tablets would fix the problem; that really doesn’t solve the problem in the first place, yes people need help but at the end of the day if people make comments like that the one I just shared. 

Is that helping the person or other people who may need the help in the first place? To me it seems that comment really not helpful what so ever because it makes me angry that people think like that. Second of all police have to deal with this sort of thing day to day and they are protecting us as civilians if they do jump and don’t want us to get some sort of trauma from it. Third of all the police are helping the person by talking them out of it and get the right help through the right channel of experience that they don’t have. Fourth point the police, fire services, ambulance services and etc see a lot of traumatic things when they are on the front line; they get effected by it all too, but they don’t get support from what’s just happened or anything. All they do is get the cuts from the system because the home sectary and money bags budget person think it’s better to cut it from there than their own pay packet. 

So the next time you hear about someone becoming unsafe or see someone thinking about committing suicide; talk to them, talk them out of it be that person who saved their lives and most importantly be the good Samaritan help them to seek help. They know someone is listening to them and someone is there to lend a hand. Just don’t ignore them because you don’t want to know or you’re on a mission to be somewhere. 

Even help by donating via this link here https://www.mind.org.uk 

Daily Comedy Kittens – Kittens Tuesday – The most battered box I’ve seen!

Since having the kittens for a month still love them very much indeed. They are two peas in a pod; love each other, hate other, protective over each other, play with each other and most importantly get jealous of one another. Let alone coping without each other to say the least. 

Both bubbas like different things bubba 1 likes soft toys and bubba 2 likes round balls to play with. However when it comes to shiny sparkly Pom Pom balls it’s different because they both want to play with it; we worked out that we had two different colours and different sizes, so it didn’t matter in the end. 

However we’ve had this one box since they have arrived at my house they got it from my aunt and uncle since then; the kittens battered it, jumped it, played in it chewed it, curled in it and running around with it on their heads when we put the box over their heads. 

They literally enjoy this one box so much that I’m surprised it’s still standing to be perfectly with you because most of their toys haven’t last a week or so because they love them. The box on the other hand if you put the box on one kitten the other kitten will try to find her sister and play fight with them if they can see their tale sticking out or their paw sticking out. One would get overly excited and pushes the box all around the room, knocking it over, jumping into it and so on. 

Trying to teach them to joint share things but sometimes that doesn’t work but something they do like is the box, no matter what they do or how they do it. You think what are you on? Whatever it is I want it? Even the impossible things that we think we can’t do or they won’t do but they manage to do it. 

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Star Light Categories – Teen Lifestyle: “Growing up watching people get lairy” – Story Based

Sitting in a back of class thinking I wish I wasn’t in school as I watch people getting lairy; to be quite honest it’s not very pretty sight I can tell you that, as I’m now whole lot older walking through town at night is quite scary but it’s not very sensible either by you’re self.

I got told by a friend or a friend that he got beaten all because he looked the wrong way by a group of youths. Yet it wouldn’t of happened if he hadn’t been there at all. I  could tell you know that I could predict a riot any day now.

I tried to get into my taxi the other day and a man in a tracksuit attacks me stating the fact that he saw it first. Yet it was a gang that had set him up completely so he could impress them and have a bit of glory. 

I start to see who I think it is who had everything going for them scrabbling around with no clothes on just earn money. If it wasn’t for the chippy down the road they would of been frozen by now. They aren’t sensible anymore than I remember. 

Is there anybody left out there that doesn’t want that life? Who really doesn’t want to be out there in the streets thinking that this is the only option for them. You can change your life around now if you know where to go and who can challenge you the most and not get into these types of things. 

Daily Comedy Kittens – Kittens Monday – For the sake of red sparkly Pom Pom ball!

You may hear a saying where Dogs are ADHD and Cats are autistic. Trust me having two kittens I can tell you right now it’s true; we’ve only had these kittens for a month and 6 days, my word you can tell their personalities but not apart though because I just proved my point earlier that I told one the kittens off for attacking the curtains and being around the tv. Then realised as I moved that one was trying to get their sparkly red ball underneath a big drawer as I soon realised when I got to the tv I literally said the wrong name. 

The fact that bubba 2 (sparkly red ball) didn’t do anything for once other than kicked her ball underneath and trying to get it. Bubba 1 had picked up bubba 2’s bad habits of distorting curtains. Bubba isn’t their actual names but I wanted to change it for social media purposes. 

Bubba 1 is a very quiet and content little kitten who watches bubba 2 play; shy, observant and she will decide wether you’re worthy to touch her or cuddle her or pick her up. Yet without you knowing she will come up to you one day wanting to be cuddled, loved and play making bubba 2 jealous at the best of times.

Bubba 2 is a hyperactive little bean from so affectionate, playful, always keeping you on your toes. Especially being adventurous and mischievous at the best of times. Trust me she’s funny at the best of times. We have noticed that she has become a bit jealous due to the fact that bubba 1 has started to come out of her shell a bit more. 

Today’s (17.9.18)  comedy from the two started with bubba 1 coming to the window trying to kiss me with her nose through the window; I was like “I love you too” then wanted me to stroke her through the window but nearly knocked off a glass bowl but also realised that I wasn’t in the house yet, I went in and they both were waiting for me by the kitchen door and I gave them both love and attention by stroking them for being so cute and hello.

After I sorted everything out with myself. Everytime I forget that they like wrappers they think it’s their treats and they think that they are going to get one or some. So whilst I was getting one of the sticks that I had brought bubba 2 was so impatient that she was clinging onto my work top like Spider-Man going up a building but spidy kitten. My thoughts were how on earth are you going to get down; she got down in the end, I was worried that she might fall off and by the way I was wearing another top underneath. 

Bit later on bubba 2 kept on getting her favourite sparkly red Pom Pom underneath the radiator and couldn’t get it out. Twice in a space of 5 seconds or so I had to take the radiator cover off or barely got it on she had it back underneath there. I was like “oh bubba really”. 

Once I got settled and both kittens were settled I was about to do something and all of the sudden I heard the curtains being attacked behind the tv. I was like “bubba stop playing with the curtains.” Not realised that bubba 2 was actually not doing anything wrong but lost her Pom Pom again I didn’t know that until I got up looked her trying to get something. 

I appeared around the tv and saw bubba 1 curled up on the cushion that was covering the wires. I was like “oh it’s you bubba 1. I’m sorry bubba 2 it’s normally you attacking the curtains.” So I helped her out trying to get her red sparkly red ball out from underneath the draw cabinet as I could move the whole thing way too heavy. 

Me and bubba 2 we’re taking it in turns to try and have a look where it was and to get it out. Team work I do have to say so my self. I was like “are you sure it’s under here bubba” she was adamant that it was underneath it. So I got my phone and turned the light on to see where it was; if my magic we both could see it, so we took it in turns but I did most of it as she watched what I was doing and tried her best to help but getting into my face as she tried stopping me from helping for a few minutes. 

Whilst this was happening bubba 1 decided to go for my feet. She does have a feet fettish going on doesn’t matter who’s feet she goes for or anything she just likes them. So whilst I had bubba 2  in my face I had bubba 1 playing with my feet and my legs tickling them with her whiskers and her fur. No matter what you tried to do. You know you going to loose one way or another. 

Written by Lizzy Johnson 

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Star Light Categories – Hustle and Bustle Advice of Blogging: Finding you’re voice through blogging

Are you finding it hard to find you’re voice through blogging? Or having a hit and miss with you’re blogging? Don’t worry we all have days like this. Don’t sweat it peeps. I can give you the low down of what you could use to find you’re voice through blogging not quite sure how it will work how I want to present it but I think I might go for the whole bullet point and see if that would work. 

  • Content: Finding the content that you want to write about, what you’re passionate about, things that enjoy doing, things you believe in and etc. This will give you more options and opportunities to get you’re voices heard.
  • Being yourself: If you have a favourite blogger and want to do something similar or the same thing. Try not copy as much as they are doing because each person have their own sense of doing things. Just be you and be comfortable with yourself because at the end of the day you’re doing it for yourself, building you’re confidence up and be pleased in what you have achieved not worrying that you’re stuff isn’t good enough and etc. Please remember that some bloggers have been doing it for years and they are always trying to work things out and improving themselves otherwise they get stuck in the same old routine. 
  • Fear of negativity: There are loads of people who are negative out there because they are either no life off their own; jealous that they can’t have what you have, they basically have no soul if they say negative things towards other people because they have had it done to them. To be honest ignore them and rise above them yeah they hurt but you either learn from them or run from them. They don’t really know you and you don’t know them at the end of the day. 
  • Positivity: Listen to the positive comments and feedbacks that you get because you know what you are doing is right along with building up your self esteem and confidence that you’re a great writer. 
  • Fear of no one is going to read your blogs: Have no fear about people not reading it or not. You may actually find that people tend to read it because they like the content and come back to read more of the same thing or find new ones. You will also find that people will also go back and find you’re old content because they want to know what else you have done. It’s not all that bad you know. 
  • Not having enough views: Don’t panic okay. I have hit and miss days because I have writer’s blocks now and then or my days get really busy and no time to blog. They always find away to look at my old blogs that I have written in the past. Just keep at it no matter what happens within your day or your really busy because at the end of the day you will have new content for everyone to read.

I hope this helps you guys to know what you can do and what to expect because at the end of the day it’s your life you’re world your blog and most of all your content. You really don’t need to copy other people style or you really want to be complicated and be really blog nerd don’t really need to copy people’s niche because you are your own blogger. 

Star Light Categories – Sunday Special – The Comedy Of The Kittens

I do find that my parents tend to forget that the kittens get into everything; especially when it comes to our food and drinks, you start to realise that they bring it onto themselves when it does happen because they call up to you or your other siblings saying like “your cats are eating my porridge”. 

You think why on earth would you leave it unattended in the first place when you perfectly well know that they will go for it and smell it. That’s what me and my sister had thought when one of our parents said it; my sister replied “that’s you’re own fault for leaving it unattending it then” which is perfectly true to be honest with you. Along with glass of wine or whatever drink you have and go out of the room for a split second. 

The kittens have great personalities that would make you laugh without a doubt because whatever they do one of them will tell on the other by coming to get me or my sister. Unless you’re like what have you done to you’re  sister in a joking way because they always look innocent one way or another. 

They even follow you to help find their sister if we haven’t heard them or seen them for awhile. You be amazed where we would find them one way or another; especially where it’s a big house for kittens to explore in, you get pretty much use to know where their hiding spots are unless they catch you out and not being there at all. Then you’re like where are they then. 

Playing together is so funny and they get jealous of each other’s toys sometimes but the best thing is if you do something out of the norm that you wouldn’t normally do. They will tell you off one way or not like you don’t know normally do it why start now.