Why I don’t know to need to know about other people’s life stories

In everyday lives of work, magazines, newspapers and celebrities who seek media attention. There are people who have the capacity of wanting to know every single drama; want to tell you every single drama or everything about themselves, or to sell their story because they want to be attention seeker one way or another. 

People theses days are so wrapped up in their own worlds that everything is about them; don’t care about anything else or anyone else but them, for me I have kept my mouth shut a few times. I only talk about myself if there’s a topic that I can relate to and to be able to share it with my readers. I choose what I want to share and what I don’t want to share. 

Attention seekers don’t have that filter what so ever; it’s because they think they are so fabulous, perfect and everything is about them when it’s not always about them. They have to move the problems aside for one whole day for either its work or friends who need help and support. I use to get it a lot when I was at work everywhere I went; I would hear the same old story about their lives; I’m like is there not anything better to talk about other than themseleves, I sometimes want to say shut up and talk about something else for a change. 

Also why do people judge other people when they don’t actually know the whole story; this what gets me nearly everyone comes to one sided story, making out that the other person is the bad person. Yet the friend or a foe think they understand but they don’t really; all because they listen to that friend more than over you, so that they make your life like a living hell.  

Judging people’s choices; weather it’s right or wrong when you actually don’t know the nature of the options are, that they had to choose from. People just need to stop making up rumours, lies and stories that may not be true. This is because you don’t even know how much it effects on the individual that your talking about; get your facts right before you start creating stories that may not be true, get all the facts first before anything else. Get two sides of every story not just the one story that everyone believes in. 

You may find that people get emotional drained; react in away that you may not realise how much baggage they’ve already have, until you start causing more trouble and forget that everyone has a story not just about you. Like the picture on the left; walk in my shoes, walk down that winding road. What can you see along the way? That’s when you soon realise before you start judging people make it simple by don’t spread things that aren’t true. Other wise you may not be able to forgive yourself or they won’t forgive you if they start not to trust you anymore or you got off the wrong start with them. 

Lushest Summer June 2017

Loving the life of June 2017’s lushest summer heat; if only there was a beach near by, swimming pool that’s not too far away from the house, would of been nice if there was a pool in my back garden but my house and garden isn’t the richest or spaces you can ask for but it’s my family house my home that I grew up in. 

This year’s weather in June is actually quite pleasant; way too hot but I’m not complaining as much; if it was raining then this blog would be completely differently, but heyho it’s not raining and it’s warm sunny and guess what this is what our summers should be like. My grandma said to me the other day was “it will turn into a storm one day”; I think she might be right actually as she didn’t take a coat with her when she came round my house for dinner, for once I actually agree with her on that one. Not that I wouldn’t disagree or agree with her that much; as she has dementia but she does come out with lots of good things, but glad that she was able to enjoy the weather as much as we did.

This weekend just been everyone headed down to the beaches; had barques, chilling in the sun, like we were craving the Vitamin D’s. Which is fair enough true; as we don’t actually get much of the sun or the heat, due to the fact that British weather is generally raining, dull and cold. Especially when it comes to the 6 weeks holidays it could all change by then; who knows to be honest with you, I never know if I’m coming or going. All I have to say is right now I am actually enjoying the nice warm weather; nothing isn’t going to me now, it’s just that feeling of positive coming to which everyone needs in their life. If the sun can do that we should have all the time. 

Currently the temperature is like 32 degrees and it’s so hot and yet my legs are cold and so is my feet but heyho that’s what you get for being cold monjority of the time, but then again I get to boiled. So my body can’t make heads or tail of it all; probably poor circulation, or something yay me. 

However at least the heat will stay around for the next few days; so it would be nice to have a chance to live it, and enjoy it as much as we can. It’s got to the point that it’s so hot that I’ve had to rummage in the freezer to look for ice cream; as you remember I think I might be dairy what you call it, but right now I’m so hot that I needed ice cream. The ice cream had already started to melt before I even touched it; that’s how you could tell it was that hot, it’s still 32/33 degrees hotter and this is British weather man so brilliant. 

Even trying to film a few videos and my phone was getting to warm due to the heat. It’s getting ridiculous. To be fair it was two videos that I did so I can counter that bit I think as my hands were hot at the time as well; you might of already seen them or you may not yet, depends when I get round to edit them and attach them to the rightful blog page as well. When I’ve done the blog for them as well. Lots to do but in this heat it’s stupid. Anyways catch you laters guys see you on the next #throwbackthursday

Vile People

There’s no good in vile people; vile people have the blackest hearts in the world, no good can heal what they have done.

As I woke up with headache in the early hours of Thursday morning but late Wednesday night; I had turned to my phone as I do for a bit of comfort as now I couldn’t sleep with the massive headache, I generally probably reply to my messages even though people maybe asleep. Sometimes I actually get a response from them unexpectedly; not all the time though, it’s just a fluke to be honest with you. 

In today’s society there’s so many vile people out there from ISIS, Government, Trump, May, Johnson is now one (should quit now whilst he’s a head), along with bad step – parents (there are good step-parents as well), friends, colleagues and many more. There is a long list of vile people who disrespects other people because they think that they can. 

Hey guess what you won’t be winning their trust or support or anything like that if you do that to them. I can easily just point out I have had my fair share of vile people; I may of done myself at some point but, at the end of the day I’m not one of those people who want power over people. Killing innocent people every two weeks and not see any progress; not saying any names but I’m going to have to Theresa May and her party. 

Furthermore to this vile human nature that we live in a bypasser yesterday/maybe today where so many lives got taken away; along with the victims who got out alive, who lost their homes. Decide to do the most indecent thing you can ever ask for; taking photos of people who couldn’t get out of the tower block in body bags, thinking it was the best and funny thing to do. That’s how low people can be who have no respect of the living or the dead; then today Theresa May well what can we say, she visited the aftermath but to the fire services and expectations of the building and she never really went to speak to the victims who had survived the burning building. Jeremy Corbyn well he showed sympathy to the victims and the services; not sure if it’s just a publicity stunt or not but he shows better leader skills than May, May really doesn’t care about the people does she. 

If you think of how many people we had lost in the past three months from the first terror attack to the last terror attack; then followed by the tower building fire losing lives about 53 people who have lost their lives from 4 different attacks, the number will be rising from the tower block aftermath as they are still looking for people. It’s sickening that no government cares about us what so ever; if they did what’s stopping them, why aren’t our voices being heard? Why doing something about it after something bad went wrong? Most importantly why is it happening now for the whole government and House of Commons looking into the whole what could of prevented? and what could of stopped it from happening? The answers will most likely to go unsolved; I can guarantee you that we will never know what might of caused it, I just feel sorry for the victims and families who have lost members.

Again we as public pulled together; Muslim and Islam communities broke their fast to come running to there aid, that shows courage for everyone that not every Muslim or Islam are bad people. I do show respect for those people who broke their tradition to help others; I personally would thank them because they must feel like we blaming them for things recently, but all so they want to show people that they are here to respect our laws and rules in the country. 

No matter how long the government will ignore us especially the Conservatives; we will win no matter what they do, say or even think. We will continue to come out on top and reduce the number of deaths as we can; we will fight back with the help of our communities, what’s more they will not separate us or break us. 

Love of my country 

Love of my country of things that makes me feel proud of being British not the stupid British we are known for monjority of the time. 

My country! My country is strong! My country come together and we stand together! We are a small country but at least we know how to fight back. I only ask the world this. If your going to bad mouth us; think it’s right to think we need help with attacking the people who did this, think wisely who would come and help you if your country was next. Faking news, blowing up the bad people in our hounor and insulting our people especially who is the mayor. Don’t expect our sympathy if your the ones under attack. At least we can capture more attacks just under 24 hours. Before you realise what had happened. #westandtogether #onelovemanchaster #onelovelondon

What makes us great at being British is that we all pull together; together as one, one whole unit two people I believe who are the most heroes and don’t get the best recognition since the attacks are the policeman who was the first on the scene and put his life on the line. He was only been on the beat for year and half or so; he feels it’s his fault that he couldn’t do more to help, as he only had his baton to hand. Whilst his colleagues battled to save his life; he was still want to hit back to the terror attacks, to protect his colleagues and the people that he served. The police officer is a hero no matter what; he did what he did for his love of the country, the citizens, colleagues and most of all the Queen of the country. Along with other officers that were also attacked; they are the heroes of this county, not the political parties they don’t do things to protect us. 

The news reporter for a newspaper company; even if the news papers get under the attack at things, but one guy who put his life on the line for someone else. He has this horrible doubts in his head now; weather what he did was the right thing to do, we all have those feelings but I do have to say this. He is a hero because what he did was unbelievable; you don’t get people to do that over the past few years, however in recent weeks we’ve become to the customs of these types off violent attacks, we help people in no matter what that’s how we are great. 

We respect our rules, laws and many more but people who don’t think our law isn’t relevant to them don’t respect them as we respect theirs if we went to their country. I’m not being racist or anything; we let people into our country for freedom and for safety, we should have the favour of having respect for our country for helping them out. However they don’t; all I can say is this if you don’t like our country or our rules and laws, you know where the door is that you came through. 

This is my country and I love my country more than politics. We are stronger than the whole politics in the commons; we are the nation who care when we are in trouble with things such as terror attacks, the more threats we get the more aware we are of them. All I can say is this UK “we stand together as one whole nation”. Keep your wits about you and see any danger or something happens; help people out if they have been targeted, help the services as much as you can even when your watching your own safety. 

How do you sort out dried/raised skin when you have been sweating so much?


Everyone sweats time to time and they can’t help it at all; no matter what shape or size you are everyone gets sweaty, you make think I’m skinny and I don’t sweaty. Oh boy I can tell you now I’m not skinny and I do sweat a lot even when I don’t do anything. 

How do you sort out dried/raised skin. When you have been sweating so much?

I sweat in all of the wrong places that I don’t want to be sweating believe me it’s horrible; this is because my skin is so soft and sensitive, it reacts to the point of it leaves marks where I have to turn to moisture to calm it all down before I didn’t have to worry so much because I would wear my leggings. For example that’s where I get marked quite easily on the inside of my thighs; that’s because if I didn’t wear my leggings or a dress that can let the air get to then sweat, that’s when they begin to rub. At the best of times it doesn’t work if it’s really hot and I haven’t got leggings on. It’s a shame that it got to that point of I have to wear leggings monjority of the time because it’s just horrible when it happens; but I do use cream a lot when something like that happens because the constants of putting moisture on is like saying I’ve got to do this everyday for it to calm down.

Where ever the dried skin or raised skin is I would recommend moisture or body butter to use; apply it each morning, each night when you wake up and go to bed because this will help you to reduce the sweat through out the day and night. It actually helps preventing the whole dried or raised skin from happening; I use body butter where I had raised spotty skin in the most inconvenient place ever, right under my boobs sorry guys quite embarrassing place to mention. I have to put cream on before I put clothes on; if I don’t I start to sweat so badly to the point of my bra starts to become increasingly annoying and I start to each; but since putting body butter on underneath that has to be one easy thing to do, sometimes I think oh I don’t think I need to put it. Oh yes I blooming do; so I do try and put it on everyday without fail; I can certainly say guys it has cleared up so much, it hasn’t even left any marks on my skin, also make sure that you dry off properly if you have a shower or a bath under there ladies before you put anything on. 

I hope this all helps and another thing I’m trying out is a crop to bra thing it’s just a little top from Primark that I had brought years ago; I just thought I’ll see how this goes for a week because if I’m wearing full tops in bed, it’s a lot harder to let the air get underneath and I do have to say it’s working wonders. 

Vomit and makes me mad

Vomit and makes me mad

Woopie do. That’s all I have to say about Pippa Middleton/Matthews; the most attention seeking women if I ever so one, don’t get me wrong she could be the most kindest person you could ask for but my god all this wedding business and what not. Drives me insane. She’s not royalty; she’s not marrying into the royal family, she’s only getting the attention is because her brother in law is the prince and her sister is the dutches. What’s more she has the next young king and Queen as her pageboy and flower girl; who do she think she is the next royal person, I don’t think so Tim. 

She just marrying a normal bloke who runs his multi million hedge company; a brother in law who’s a Reality Tv star, she only knows the famous celebrities through her big sister and her husband. She really isn’t creating a name for herself other than the Duchess sister who made her a maid of honour and her bum took over the spot light of her sister’s wedding. 

Pippa made rules that people have to by by; yeah it’s understandable but at the end of the day, weather your older sister or brother is married to a royal or not you don’t get the royal treatment. I know I would refuse point blankly; especially when it comes my own wedding why would you make a replica of your sisters wedding, I wouldn’t want to do that to my sister nor my sister would do the same. Yes there should be boundaries which is understandable but seriously mate get over yourself. 

Sorry I just hate attention seekers who thinks it’s okay to do the something; at least Kate Middleton had the respect of her sister’s wedding not up stage her, however I would if my sister had upstaged me at my wedding. Along with Prince Harry he gave her respect of not bringing his girlfriend; however he shouldn’t do that in the first place wether he was a royal or not, his mother would wanted him to have a normal life as well. Clearly Pippa has no concept of what he had to deal with as a child; at least his sister in law is carrying on the memory to help Harry and William along side bringing up their own children in the correct way and know what the real world is.

Oh for the love of writing! How much stuff have I got? 

Oh for the love of writing! How much stuff have I got?

My parents had moved a big green arm chair that once belonged to my great nan on my mum’s dad side of the family; they had to move it for my grandparents to use for their health reasons, one of my parents came in to ask me to sort out some folders that were left underneath the chair at the time. I went down to go and get them. Once I have brought them up; as I looked through I didn’t realise how much notes, stories and etc I had. 

My god I didn’t realise how much I gone through in my late teens when I was back at college 17-21 years old; the love of writing I did back then was truly amazing, it gave me that sense of wellbeing of joy and happiness that I loved about writing. It just gave me the greatest achievement, sense of achievement and accomplishment of being able to do something like creative writing and blogging to a whole knew level. 

Literally 3 files worth of old notes and stories that I use to write; on which now I am determined to carry on, achieving knowing that I can do this once and for all. Anyone can achieve their dreams if they can believe in themselves and work hard in what they want to do in life.

Your Opinions On Reality Tv 


The whole reality Tv things gets me so confused theses days; there’s so many I’m just like oh shhhs no one seems to care, your only doing it for attention and etc. Hey ho this is all about my opinions at the end of the day; hey guess what it’s throwbackthursday, it’s what topic I’ve chosen even if I’m struggling to write it on a Wednesday along with the others. 

Your Opinions On Reality TV

When I was growing up there wasn’t much reality Tv shows other than Pop Stars, Pop Rivals, Behind the Star in your eyes, blind date, I’m Celebrity get me out of here and X Factor. Now you’ve got loads of them Towie, Jersey Shores, British Got Talent, The Voice and many more. 

If your watching reality tv shows like Towie and Jersey Shores I hate to say it but it’s all about attention seekers who think that their lives are so much better than everyone else’s. That’s not reality Eastenders who is fiction and play out the true emotions of true stories; get attracted because people don’t want to know or really upset by it, I’m sorry this is reality it’s the real world not the whole world is about dumb idiots who don’t work because they getting paid by the shows that they do.

I could give you my low down of my reality that I do each day; the mount of battles I have to do, where I currently work and behind the scenes of my personal life of looking after my grandparents. Believe me the people who do these shows may not even laid a finger on anything that I had to do. 

I’m celebrity get me out of here shows people who watch this program the real side of being celebrities because not all don’t see, to be who they relaunch say they are. I’m going to stop now as I’m starting to waffle now haha. 

My garden back then!


This week has to be the most topsy turvy week everything is going in the wrong places; blogs not being done, don’t worry all will go back to normal soon as I’ve got everything sorted. Being ill, bank holidays and going to work then not going to work just mess everything up. On the good note I have a surprise for you this week it’s an old picture of my garden way before it looks now. 

My garden back then!

This is a picture curtsy of my next door neighbor for 26 years of my life but longer than that before I was born. 29 years as my parents moved in when they were expecting my second oldest brother at the time. 
The garden then was pretty awesome not saying it looks awesome now; but at the time of growing up the whole garden looked big, with a big space you could play in you could put more play things in. On which my parents did over the years; I don’t remember much now but you tend to forget over the years, as the times and the eras change. 

At the end of the garage there was a Wendy House; that my dad had built for me when I was a kid it apparently was turned into lots of things, like flower shop, shrieking shack, Chinese Restaurant and many others that I don’t remember. My sister had the Wendy House after I didn’t need it; however me and my siblings use to jump off the roof as for fun, that’s what we did in those days, well my brothers did in those days. They would get up to loads of things back then. More settle down now but still up to no good when they want to be. Now in the Wendy House’s place for my mums 50th present she wanted a green house; the fun of knocking down the Wendy House, along with three of us. Me, my sister who was about 11 or 12 I think not sure at the time and one of my brothers were knocking it down. Just the two of them would go flying into the Wendy House every so often with the sledgehammer; at that time they were bit of light weights, as I was a bit heavier who could stand my ground a bit more. Haha not boosting or anything but I think now they can do more than I can I think as they’ve put more weight on. 

Where the climbing frame is, the rabbit hut is and the little seating area is. Is now currently has a trampoline in the corner, my mums vegetable patch and the green house is now sitting. From the rabbit hutch to the shed is now a more adulty seating area to get away from the house, if you can these days now when you have the Sainsbury’s car park and etc.

In a few weeks time or so I’ll do another #throwbackthursday with a most recent update photo of my back garden to show you how much it has changed over the years.

What have you learnt from a family member?

What have you learnt from a a family member? 

The things that I learnt from a family member is that it’s okay to be not so tough at times; however being a tough person it’s like say you can’t do that or can’t do this. With the stories that I’ve been told about my grandparents that I never knew; it makes me wonder why I sometimes get quite cross, stick up for people who can’t stick up for themselves. Plus at the the best of times I think as I look back at my past as a kid; I wish I could of done what I know now, but can’t change the past but to look forwards.

You have to be nice and friendly to everyone; even though you just want to rattle their cages, because sometimes they can’t see what you can see until it happens and your like “I told you so”. That’s when they start coming to you for more information and etc to be able to help the children’s in their class.